In both cases, they’re doing what would turn the other gender rather than attracting them. She just said that because she has money, you should by her a nice dinner and should not expect her to kick in for the cost. Did she forget that just 20 seconds ago she told men to buy older women expensive dinners?
She’s been to enough of these things on her own to manage just fine while you’re talking to someone else. That’s true, the older woman usually doesn’t check in with her friends like that.
So when you take her out with your friends or coworkers, be it to a wedding or work event, you don’t have to worry she’ll perish without your constant attention. A slightly more mature lady has friends—but she sure as shit doesn’t need their permission to live her life.
When you date a younger woman, he said, you also date all her friends, and it’s “a pain in the fucking ass.” You can’t just go out and do your own thing because she must receive approval from a larger governing body.
It’s actually a very entertaining problem to observe, and I have to admit it has provided me with much entertainment over the years. Then come back and tell me which age group demanded that you: She can make you a better man.
However, sometimes gender myopia is so extreme it’s not funny at all. The woman writing the article is so wound up in what think is attractive in women (some extreme betas she uses as examples notwithstanding). A friend of mine dated a 40-year-old woman when he was 22 and new to New York.