Blamers will certainly cause pain for you if you come to love one.Very Early Warning Sign #2: Resentment Resentment is a negative mood caused by focus on perceptions of unfairness.Remember that the money aspect is merely a “foot in the door” for getting a first date. Never think you have the upper hand just because you made the offer.If you are respectful, follow-through with your offer, and are genuinely interested, then you will more than likely get an encore date. Do begin your first message by gauging his/her interests (food, hobbies, activities, etc.).Don’t reference the amount of money it took to get the first date. Don’t make a spectacle and announcement prior to payment.
When you become the closest person to him, the blame will certainly turn on you.If your date is attracted to you, then he/she will not hesitate in obliging.Don’t offer him/her more money on the first date to get a second date.There are obvious red flags to avoid in a prospective lover, such as angry, controlling, possessive, jealous, or violent behavior.Unfortunately, most abusers are able to mask these tendencies in dating.