If you’re not in the mood for sex then he’s not in the mood for company. Anytime you want to plan something, he just wants to play it by ear.Your purpose in his life is to stimulate his body, so if you can’t do that then he has no use for you. He can’t commit to a night with you, let alone a relationship.
You’ve never really had “The Talk.” You’ve tried to bring it up but he always seems to change the subject without you even noticing.
He keeps your talk simple so that the “relationship” can stay simple too. Other than wanting you to think he’s good in bed, he doesn’t go out of his way in any way. Because he wants to make it clear that he’s not your boyfriend.
Honestly, he doesn’t really care what you think of him because this “relationship” isn’t long term. He’s not the person you turn to when times are hard. You can want him in your bed, but you can never need him, at least not emotionally.
Soz, girl, but it sounds like you’re being “stashed.” First coined by Ellen Scott of , “stashing” occurs when the person you’re dating doesn’t really acknowledge your relationship in a public way.
This could be by failing to introduce you to people, or by never posting anything about you on social media (rude! Dating expert Jo Hemmings explained to the that if you're being "stashed" then you're basically being played.