Normal girls don't lie because they don't have to and if you indo girlfriend is lying to you; it means that she is not behaving normally. Usually, she will say she has "problems at home", but don't take her word too seriously: Chances are she is angry because one of the expats she is dating stopped sending her money, or because she fought with her Indonesian guy.6) When you meet your girlfriend's friends, you realize that all of them have a rich expat boyfriend, and , and you even feel that she thinks it's normal.10) : She misses many of your calls, she does not reply to your emails, or she does not try to gain your trust...You feel you are giving her all the time but you don't get anything in return except sex once in a while (if she sees you're angry).Don't expect a girl who did that kind of cheating to be nicer with you! The reason for that is simple: It's hard to be deceptive, and when someone's life is a lie, he cannot always find good excuses for everything.She cannot keep track of all the lies she is saying because it is not possible for a normal human being. 5) Another sign that can help you see if the girl you are dating is having multiple boyfriends: She that make her mad/sad/depressed.Prostitutes are not a precise category of the population like in Europe: Things are more complicated: In any given night club in Jakarta, you will meet many girls who will be ready to sleep with you without giving too much thought about whether they like you or not: You are an expat, presumably rich, and they know they may get what she wants later.Those “prostitutes” do not look like hookers: They are young, cute, and they seem so nice that it is hard to imagine what is behind their smiles: That doesn’t mean you should stop enjoying your time in Jakarta: If the sex with her is good and you are not emotionally attached, I say don't pay too much attention to it, but then protect yourself and do not fall in love.
This is not an exhaustive list of all the signs that can exist showing your Indonesian girlfriend is cheating on you.After 5 years leaving in Jakarta, I think I’ve heard 100 hundred of these stories.It is very common for anyone familiar with Jakarta nightlife.It meant that if she wanted to call someone, she had to type a password first... Then, wherever she would go, she would always, always take her phone with her: In the toilet, in the shower, in the kitchen...She would never forget it, and if she did, she would come back in a hurry to get it, and she would ask me, worried: Did you take a look at my phone?