Even male language, top/bottom, dominant/submissive, etc., is indicative of classic male role-playing behavior.
So imagine putting two men together with these dynamics and you often get the typical male complaint, “I just can’t seem to find someone who wants to commit.” The problem may not be so much a lack of the desire to commit but more lack of familiarity or practice with the skill set needed to make it work.
Survival requires learning how to size up a situation to know how to behave.
These skills are also useful in relationships when they translate to sensitivity to the other person and adaptability to new or unfamiliar situations.
Men have more difficulty moving from the me/I position to the we/us position.
Women generally possess better verbal/negotiation skills than men.
Because GLBT youth are often hidden and/or just beginning to come to terms with their own identity their learning curve in the dating department is delayed and often put off to later, producing a disadvantage regarding acquired dating skills.GLBT persons have unique challenges and may bring unique resources to their loving relationships that are not shared by heterosexual couples.The social, cultural, legal and sometimes familial supports for our relationships are at best lacking or weak and at worst destructive.Are there any differences between gay and straight relationships? In human terms a loving relationship is similar across the spectrum of sexualities.Most human beings regardless of orientation need/want to love and feel loved, to matter to someone special, to have regular and predictable companionship, to have a reliable sexual outlet and to build a life together based on mutual respect and understanding with shared goals and common interests.