Some singles don’t bother to look for a spouse, believing God will bring the person to them, while others are forever on a search for one, fearing they may miss him or her.There should be a balance, as we remember that God is perfectly loving (Ephesians ; 1 John -18) and perfectly sovereign over every situation, desire, and need (Psalm 1; Romans -39).(Please note that Got Questions Ministries does not endorse any particular Christian or secular dating service site).One major downfall of internet dating is that you can never be sure who is being honest and who is pretending to be someone they’re not.Internet dating is currently the most popular alternative way to meet singles.
When you do meet for the first time, do so in a public place—never allow them to drive you anywhere or take you somewhere where you will be alone.
Some people prefer to meet their spouse through friends, family, or in a chance meeting out in the world, and many do just that.
But others believe they are limited in the people they meet because of their profession, the size of their city, or the nature of their activities.
We can put ourselves in a position to meet other Christians by looking for a church singles group.
We may want to volunteer for a cause we care about or join other groups, being sure that we are doing it because we enjoy it, not just because we want to meet as many potential mates as possible.