"If you don't say to your man: 'Okay, look, next time she calls, do not leave us in the middle of the night. "Every man has it in his DNA to do these things when we love you.
When you call on it and require it, we rise to the occasion." From The Oprah Winfrey Show © 2008 Subscribe to O, The Oprah Magazine for up to 75% off the newsstand price.
It's all about the "three P's." Oprah.com: Can a list help you find love? "A man has got to see where he fits into the providing and protecting role. ' "You've got to make a space for him to fit in so he can come in and do what men do." Steve doesn't advise women to downplay their success or pack up their designer shoes.
There are millions of smart, beautiful women around the world who can't figure out why they're unlucky in love, including a group of friends from New York. Steve says many successful women dated good men but didn't know it at the time. Even if you look like a million bucks -- and you have a few million in the bank -- Steve says a woman needs to know how a man shows his love.
All you've got to do is stay patient." Why do many successful, independent women have a hard time finding love?
Before Jill married her husband of 13 years, she says she knew he was a mama's boy.
"Are you willing to be the same thing to him that you're talking about on that list? "A lot of women are not." In general, do women even need a list? If you're married to a mama's boy, is there anything a wife can do to become the number one woman in his life?
"You know how many times I hear women say: 'I don't need a man. If you're projecting it, where does a man fit in there? We're stupid." If you're hoping for a courtesy call, Steve says you can forget about that too. Listen, it's not in our DNA as great communicators anyway," he says. If you don't think it's important to your man, Steve says you're wrong. "It's one of the three things that a man has to have. [If] anyone of those three things is missing in the relationship, he's going to go get it somewhere else." If a man is cheating or has the intention to cheat, why pursue commitment with one woman? Let the baggage go." Sadly, many women have dated men who cheat..most of them don't even know it.
These Two Kids Never Dreamed They'd Be Able To Start A Business In Their Neighborhood Growing up in the hood, Khristian and Chris wanted to work for themselves but didn't know how, until Reginald came along and helped them start Black Bee Honey.
Some guys don’t get it, but they haven’t read the book either, as don’t a lot of men.
Sometimes men don’t read, so they think it is giving up the game, but it shouldn’t be a game when it comes to somebody’s happiness and somebody’s life. I think the disadvantage some women have had is they haven’t been exposed to the way men think of things.
Then I teach women how to get how to get those things from a particular candidate that they are interested in.
e Harmony: What are the biggest mistakes women make when dating?